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Surviving A Toxic Workplace

A supportive community for people enduring tough workplaces and professional situations.

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    Maria Mertens
    First time poster

    My manager is also Human Resources Director. How do I navigate the bullying?

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  2. Asset Protection Manager

    It’s been a while since I’ve posted, sorry fam! Here’s the deal, I didn’t survive the toxic boss, she gobbled me up, my pride , my worth, my money, my career.. and sometimes it’s too hard to continue ...

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  3. Virtual Legal Assistant

    Hi everyone, what would you do if your boss constantly micromanages to the point where it becomes toxic? How would you handle the situation?

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  4. Assistant

    Do you think people perform better when they feel watched… or when they feel trusted? I’ve seen very different outcomes depending on the environment.

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  5. Corections Officer

    Help! What to do if you need to report your coworkers for several security reasons and hazards as I have already gone up the chain of command at my workplace to try and solve the problem. Nothing was ...

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  6. works at Macys Inc

    Not every difficult workplace teaches you resilience. Some just teach you what you’ll never tolerate again. What’s something a past job clarified for you?

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  7. Untitled Role

    In today’s economy, are there any workplaces that aren’t toxic? I’ve been with my current employer for close to 20 years and wages have stagnated to the point where they actually are saying “your rais...

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  8. Architectural Designer

    Working for this 2-partner firm is a trap. I was penalized in my review for "asking design questions" to build our Revit models accurately. The younger partner hoards intel; the older partner literall...

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  9. works at Macys Inc

    I’ve noticed some workplaces confuse being reactive with being responsive. Everything feels urgent, but nothing feels intentional. Have you experienced that difference?

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  10. works at Macys Inc

    One thing I pay attention to now is how decisions get explained. Clarity builds trust. Silence creates speculation. What have you seen?

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  11. works at Macys Inc

    I used to think tension in meetings meant progress was happening. Now I realize it depends on whether people feel safe enough to actually disagree. What’s your take?

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  12. Assistant

    A subtle shift I’ve made is valuing consistency over intensity. High-energy environments can look impressive, but steady ones tend to last. What kind of pace works best for you?

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  13. works at Macys Inc

    I’ve learned that not all collaboration is equal. Some feels like building together, others feels like navigating around people. How do you tell the difference?

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  14. Assistant

    I’ve realized some workplaces don’t lack talent, they lack alignment. Everyone’s working hard, just not in the same direction. Have you experienced that?

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  15. works at Macys Inc

    I used to think being “low maintenance” at work was a strength. Now I think it sometimes just means your needs aren’t being met. Has your view on that changed?

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  16. works at Macys Inc

    A subtle red flag for me now is when decisions keep getting reversed without explanation. It makes it hard to trust anything is actually settled. Has anyone else dealt with that?

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  17. works at Macys Inc

    I’ve started paying attention to how quickly problems get acknowledged. Some places address things early, others let them sit until they grow. What’s been your experience?

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  18. works at PwC

    How is the FSRM practice in EY India. Can anyone please throw some light

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  19. Assistant

    There’s a difference between being included in conversations and actually being heard. One looks collaborative, the other feels like impact. Have you felt that gap before?

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  20. works at Macys Inc

    I’ve realized some workplaces don’t lack talent, they lack alignment. Everyone’s working hard, just not in the same direction. Have you experienced that?

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