How do you prepare for rejection?
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I’m attracted to Indian American women. For context, I’m 29 and moved to the US at 18 for college from the Middle East. I’ve been in the States for close to 11 years and have tried my best to assimilate. However, during dating, I feel Indian American women often disqualify me since I wasn’t “born here”, and I’m a “FOB”. Do you have any tips on how to assimilate more deeply so that i can date indian american women? What are some giveaways that someone is a FOB?
How old do you want your kids to be before you let them stay home alone for long periods of time? We have a 9 and 13 year old and my husband thinks the 13 year old could stay home on his own while we're working during the summer. We don't trust this kid to use the air fryer on his own and he sleeps through the smoke detector if it goes off, but sure, let's leave him to his own devices all summer.
You don’t, confidence is key. Like a boxer, you get back up and into the ring. You’re the best there is, expect to succeed
Expect nothing
Every relationship ends in rejection unless it's the one. It's no big deal
Are you saying rejection from a dating pool? Or Rejection while in a relationship already?
Gotcha. Well, if you’re already interested I’d say that you only need to be careful and go slow. Don’t let feelings be bigger than they need to be at this stage. Not sure if you have this person as a friend, if you never approached at all or what but in general, I’d say be direct. Not creepy lol but honest. “Hey, I’ve been noticing you for some time and I’d love to know you better” and see what comes back. If the person says, no thank you, than that’s great! You know you cannot invest in your current interest and move on. Don’t take personally, it’s not about you. See as literally a trial and error process.
You work on yourself till you become the 10/10 that has never ending options. Makes rejection a little easier.
You’ll still get rejected. But the difference is you won’t care as much when you have options.